Your 30-Day Pyaar (Love) & Palan (Upbringing) Plan 🏡

 

Phase 1: Building Trust and Security

 

1. Be Patient (Dheere Dheere): Give Them Time to Settle

Your dog is in a completely new world with strange sounds, smells, and faces. They might be quiet, hide, or act clumsy. Do not rush them. Let them explore at their own pace. Avoid inviting many guests over in the first week. Let them approach you first when they are ready to seek pyaar (affection). Trust is built slowly, not forced.

 

2. Establish a Strict Routine (Niyam)

Dogs feel safe with predictability. Set consistent times for everything: feeding, walking, and bathroom breaks. When the routine is set, your dog knows what to expect and when, which drastically cuts down on anxiety and helps immensely with house-training.

3. Start House-Training on Day One

This is the most important task! Designate one specific outdoor spot for the bathroom. Take your dog there frequently (after waking up, after eating, and after playing). When they go in the right spot, reward them immediately with a treat and enthusiastic praise (Shabash!). Accidents will happen—it’s normal. Just clean it up without scolding and redirect them.

4. The Safe Den (Aaram ki Jagah)

A crate or a cosy corner with their bed and blankets should be their “safe space” (aaram ki jagah). Introduce the crate positively: put treats and toys inside, and let them enter and exit freely. Never use the crate as punishment. It should be their retreat when they feel overwhelmed.

Phase 2: Health, Training, and Socializing

 

5. Mandatory Vet Visit (Doctor Se Milna)

Schedule a veterinary check-up within the first week. The vet will ensure they are healthy, up-to-date on vaccinations (tika), and have protection against fleas/ticks and deworming. This is also your chance to discuss nutrition and any behavioural questions you have.

6. Smart Introductions to Other Pets

If you already have a dog or cat, introductions must be slow and supervised.

• Neutral Territory: Meet first in a neutral area (like a park or quiet hallway) so neither pet feels territorial.
• Short and Sweet: Keep initial meetings short, and reward both pets when they are calm. Never force interaction. Use patience; some pets take weeks to accept a new housemate.

7. Brain & Body Exercise (Dimag aur Sharir Ka Vyayam)

A tired dog is a well-behaved dog.

• Physical: Ensure daily walks and playtime (fetch, tug-of-war).
• Mental: This is vital! Use puzzle feeders for meals or play “Find the Treat” (hiding food and letting them sniff it out) to keep their minds busy and prevent boredom-induced chewing.

8. Start Basic Obedience Training

Training establishes clear communication between you and your dog. Start with simple commands like “Sit”, “Stay”, and “Come”. Keep sessions short (5-10 minutes), consistent, and always use positive reinforcement (praise and treats). This builds their confidence and strengthens your rishta.

Phase 3: The Long-Term Bond

9. Monitor Health and Behavior Closely

In the first month, keep a keen eye on their habits. Are they eating and drinking normally? Are they pacing or excessively licking (signs of anxiety)? If you notice worrying signs like vomiting, diarrhoea, or excessive lethargy (sust hona), contact your vet immediately. Early detection is key.

10. Shower Them With Pyaar and Affection

Ultimately, your dog wants to feel safe and loved. Spend quality time together, speak in a gentle tone, and praise them often. Every dog has a unique personality—be flexible and respect their needs. This foundation of unconditional love is what builds a bond that lasts a lifetime.